I Know The Scriptures Are True
Sunday, October 23, 2011
We all know that I have made plenty of mistakes in my life. However normally I am pretty content only hurting myself. A few months ago I made a mistake in the heat of the moment during a family argument. I was hurt and thought I was justified to lash out at my oldest sister. Instead of keeping the drama in my family I chose to publicly bash her for anyone who had access to my blog to read.
Merri, I love you and am so so so sorry for the hurtful things I said to you. I did not mean them, I was just lashing out. Saying the worst things I could imagine to hurt you, even though they were not true. I know that I have hurt you, and would do about anything to take it back. You have stood by my side through the most difficult things I have had to go through in my life. Impossibly hard things that I never thought I would ever come out of alive anyways. I love having you as a sister, and though we have countless things we don't see eye to eye on I love and cherish you for all of your strengths. In many ways I envy you ! I have always looked up to you Merri. You have an amazing heart, and are great at everything you do. You are an amazingly patient mother who is constantly doing selfless things to keep your 3 little ones happy and active.
Merri I hate living my life without you in it, and I hope you can forgive me. What I did was hurtful, hateful and cruel. I love you, and never want our family to be split like this again. Thanks for always being there for me in my darkest hours. Love and miss you. Lets fix us!
Monday, May 2, 2011
I could sure use my birthmothers/birthmothers support group right about now. Correct me if I am wrong, but we did not have a funeral for Azlyn or Liam right? I distinctly remember having 2 placement ceremonies when I signed the adoption paperwork (to give them a better life, not to throw them away and get them out of my life so I didn't have to have anything to do with them), they are both still very much alive and very much an important part of my life, right!?! I wanted to keep them more than anything in my life, but they deserved better, and so did Kade.
I need your support. You should care because Azlyn and Liam matter to me. You should be there for me! Quit acting like they never happened, and like I should just forget about them. I can't handle it anymore. I wanna just run away from you and never care about what you both think or say to me anymore, because lately all I feel is hurt from you and your actions. You will never know what it feels like to be in my shoes. You think you hurt? Step outside of yourself for the first time in your life, and imagine the agony I am going through knowing that emotionally I am completely alone without you two by my side.
I still stand by my decision that placing Azlyn and Liam was the right thing to do! I don't regret it one bit, but without your support, I find myself thinking more and more often what it would have been like to have kept them both, and that gets me down, and I don't like having those thoughts. I wish you would just be there for me because being there for me is the right thing to do.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
The Lord commanded that we should love our neighbors as ourselves. Who is more of a neighbor to me then my Mother/Family?
Lately I have been struggling with accepting a family member for the way they are. It has been affecting me, as well as her I am sure. I have lost sleep, allowed my attitude to ruin my entire day, been angry, and even cried. I am sure I have allowed this to affect me my entire life, and I am tired of it. I am really going to work on letting it not affect me so much. I will serve her, love her, and do all that I can to not be judgemental but to be loving, and more understanding. At the end of the day I have the ability to choose between being happy, angry, or sad. I have control over my emotions, and how I handle things is up to me. It is her life to live the way she chooses, and I have realized that I may never completely understand her, but I will always love her.
Friday, April 15, 2011
How lucky am I!!! It is almost becoming a habit that I get to see Azlyn and Liam each month since Liam's birth. I could really get use to this. I love spending time with these two! Dara and Jim flew with the kids to Phoenix this past week to stay in a resort (Jim received a reward from his work), while Dara's parents picked up the kids to stay with them for the week in Tucson. So I of course drove up to visit them. I had a blast! Azlyn cuddled with me more in this one visit than she had her entire life after leaving the hospital that is.
|It's really hard to get a picture with all 3 of us looking!|
These two are so cute together. Liam adores Azlyn. I really wish I had brought Kade, because Azlyn kept asking about him, and Kade just adores his younger brother and sister.
Failed attempt #2 of trying to get us all looking.
I brought Azlyn a little Tinker Bell phone, and as I tried to photograph her with it she did the same to me. Dara saw the picture and knew exactly what Azlyn was doing. I guess she does this regularly.
Brother and Sister! I am so glad they have each other.
Failed attempt #3 lol
This little guy makes the cutest faces
Love that belly
We Did It!
Poor princess bonked her head.
Grandma Butler "revived" Bear Bear by adding more stuffing to him and sewing him up. Azlyn decided she needed to be stuffed too. See her fluffy belly? So cute.
Love this face
I like this one
Hard to believe she is actually laughing
|I am so glad I get to see you guys often. I sure love you both and always will.|